10 Ways on How to Get Children to Live a Healthy Lifestyle

If you’ve been wondering how to get children to live a healthy lifestyle, you’re not alone. Many parents wonder what they can do to get their kids to eat better, sleep better, and of course avoid as many trips to the doctor’s as possible.

So what can parents do to encourage their children to live a healthy lifestyle? Here are some tips:

1. Start Early: The sooner you introduce healthy lifestyle habits to your child, the less resistance you will get and the easier it will be for them to continue those healthy lifestyle habits throughout their childhood and into adulthood. Start introducing your child to healthy vegetables as soon as they start eating solid foods and try to limit added sugar and sweets. If you’re kids are past babyhood and toddlerhood though, don’t worry – just keep gradually trying new things until they find something they like.

2. Set a Good Example: Children will often want to do what they see adults doing. If you for example eat a lot of sweet snacks and don’t exercise on a regular basis, they will likely do the same. But if you get into a regular exercise routine, they will want to join in and it can become a fun regular activity the whole family can enjoy. Setting a good example by also not doing things such as smoking or drinking alcohol can also help your children not feel like you are saying “do as I say, not as I do”.

3. Have Them Drink More Water: Most kids don’t drink enough water each day, and this can cause them instead to overload on sugary soft drinks or fruit juices. Serve water or milk with meals. Some children might even like vegetable juice, depending on how much they’ve been exposed to sugary sweet drinks only.

4. Cook Healthier: It’s easy for parents to make a few simple changes in the food the serve at home. Using foods with no trans fat or reduced fat is one easy way to start cooking healthier. Another way to help children to live a healthy lifestyle is introduce them to whole grains instead of refined grains. Cutting out any added sugar, salt, and fat to your regular cooking can make a great beginning for healthy eating habits.

5. Make Family Exercise a Regular Thing: Exercising with the family can be a lot of fun. Turn on some great music and start dancing around, or start taking regular walks and bicycle rides if your children are old enough. It can be a great way to spend time together and do something healthy at the same time.

6. Establish a Normal Bed Time Routine: Many parents overlook bedtime routines, but having one can make a big difference in the cooperation you get from your child to do other healthy things and his or her overall well being. Getting enough sleep each night will help them be more resistant to colds and other contagious illnesses that pass through schools quickly. It will also put them in a much happier mood and make it easier for them to avoid unhealthy habits.

7. Reduce Stress: Stress can have many negative consequences on both parents and children. It can affect their mood, their sleep, and their eating habits. Some children may overeat when stressed while others may not eat enough. Others may be more likely to do things such as sit in front of the television for hours instead of more productive and healthier activities. It can be difficult for families to realize what is causing stress, but often it can be alleviated by reducing the number of unnecessary responsibilities or becoming more organized. For example, if mornings are always hectic at your house, try laying out clothes for school, taking baths, packing lunches, and maybe even have breakfast on the go ready all the night before. The more you do to become organized and develop a routine, the less stress you and your children will experience.

8. Encourage Healthy Decision Making: Most kids like to have the feeling that they are in control. One way to give them some control is to teach them about making healthy choices and letting them make choices. For example, you can ask them if they’d rather have green beans or carrots for dinner or go for a walk or play Frisbee. If you have older children, you will want to talk to them about how to make healthy choices amongst their peers, even if it’s not what everybody else is doing.

9. Exercise Their Minds: Kids might have a lot to do at school, but its also likely they are turning into mush sitting there day in and day out. Helping your child do well in subjects such as math or language or even just doing puzzles and playing games as a family can help keep their minds active and exercised. Reading to your children is also recommended – if they are older kids who can read on their own, encourage trips to the library and for them to tell you about the stories they read. Keeping children mentally healthy can have a big impact on their other health aspects.

10. Be Environmentally Conscious & Teach Safety: The environment can play a big part in your child’s health also. Teach them the basics and practice recycling, saving energy, and using things responsibly. While talking to your kids about things like poisons in the home such as bleach, gasoline or lead paint probably aren’t high on your to-do list, it’s important that kids know that these things can also be bad for them. You should also make sure your family has a fire safety plan, know what to do in an emergency, and other basic safety needs, such as wearing seat belts, street crossing, and wearing bike helmets. Many children each year are hospitalized and killed because of injuries – teaching good safety habits are another way to encourage children to live a healthy lifestyle.

We hope you enjoyed our tips on ways on how to get children to live a healthy lifestyle. If you have any other suggestions for parents or thoughts, feel free to share them in the comments below!

Homemade Lip Gloss

Who doesn’t love lip gloss? It’s a quick and easy pick me up and can accessorize with just about anything. Homemade lip gloss is twice as sweet, since you can have control over the flavor and colors. It’s a great activity to do with family or can be used to make gifts as well. Best of all, it’s also super easy to make when you use a very basic household staple – Vaseline.

Step 1: Choose a Container

The first thing you will need before you start creating a recipe for homemade lip gloss is to make sure you have a good container to use and put it in when it is finished. You can wash and reuse empty lip gloss containers you have from before, or you can use small plastic containers, such as film canisters if you want it to be portable. If you’d like to make large batches, you can use small containers that you would use for leftovers.

Step 2: Melt the Vaseline

To make your homemade lip gloss, you will need to first melt the Vaseline. This can be done in a variety of ways. A microwave is probably the easiest, but you need to be very careful, since you do not want the vaseline to get too hot. You can melt it by placing it in a glass microwave safe dish and microwaving for 20-30 seconds, then stir in your ingredients. (Microwave temperatures and times will vary – it is better to cook just a little at a time than to cook for very long! If need be, continue in 30 second intervals until it becomes a liquid consistency.

Another alternative way to melting the Vaseline is to place the vaseline in a plastic zip tight bag and then running it under very hot water from your sink, or you can place the bag in a bowl of very hot water and let it sit until the Vaseline is melted. Once it is melted, you can add your ingredients and then stir together. This is the safest way to melt Vaseline.

Another thing you can do if you’d like to alternate the flavors of your homemade lip gloss is to consider using different bases besides vaseline. Beeswax is a popular choice, you can also use vegetable shortening. Always be careful when microwaving and heating the base for your lip gloss – you don’t want any burns or for it to catch on fire!

Step 3: Stir in Your Flavorings

If you can mix it with Vaseline, you can use it to flavor your lip gloss! Here are a few ideas for things you can stir into Vaseline to make your own flavor and color combination:

    Powdered Drink Mix, such as Kool-Aid
    Vanilla
    Cocoa Powder or Hot Chocolate Drink Mix
    Almond, Peppermint, or Orange Extract (available in spice aisle at the grocery store)
    Cinnamon
    A small piece of your favorite hard candy (butterscotch, caramel, peppermint, or chocolate flavored, crushed into small pieces)
    Coconut Oil
    Honey
    Vitamin E or Aloe

Another option for making your own lip gloss is to buy a lip gloss making kit. This Make Your Own Lip Balm Kit can be a great way to get started if you do not want to try it on your own with our easy directions above.

Enjoy your new homemade lip gloss!

Saving Money as a Stay At Home Mom

Saving money as a stay at home mom is probably one of the biggest concerns stay at home moms have, especially when the decision to become a stay at home mom means giving up an additional second income. Fortunately, it is easy to save money as stay at home mom. Some mothers may be surprised to find out that it costs them less now that they are not going to work anymore!

Here are some of our stay at home mom money saving tips:

1. Examine Your Budget: This is a crucial step for saving money that many people overlook. You need to know exactly how your money is being spent and what it is going to. By examining your budget you can analyze your spending habits and find new ways to trim your bills that you never thought were otherwise possible. You’ll also have a clear idea of how much money you need to allot to things like bills and how much you can spend for entertainment or stash away in savings.

2. Reduce Your Utility Bills: Many times your utility bills can be reduced simply by doing a few simple things. For example, switching to flourescent bulbs instead of regular light bulbs can shave anywhere from $50-$100 annually. Turn off any lights or televisions you are not using. If you use a cell phone most of the time, you might be able to save money by doing away with a land line phone. (Be careful though – if switching to just a cell phone means extra minute and usage charges it may not save you any money at all!) You can also save on your heating bill by setting your thermostat lower at night and when no one is home.

3. Be a Savvy Shopper: Shopping can make or break a budget. Stores do not make it easy on anyone either, since their goal is to make money. You might notice a value pack, but right below it might be a smaller sized package that is actually cheaper. Reading Labels and price tags is a good start to saving more money. The next step is to only go to the store with a list and only buy what’s on that list – if you stray you may end up spending more money than you wanted – and that won’t help you save any money as a stay at home mom! Always check brand differences also – you might find a cheaper version of something in a generic store brand. The stores you shop at can make a big difference too – a little research can help you find the stores near you that have the lowest prices.

4. Watch Coupons: Coupons can make or break your shopping budget. You might think you’re saving money, but if you have to spend more to save the money, you’re not really saving money, are you? A generic or other brand might still be cheaper than the one you have the coupon for! Also, don’t be swayed be rebates if you know you will never turn them in! If you happen to find some great coupons, there may be stores near you that even double them, so keep that in mind also.

5. Be Creative: Saving money doesn’t mean you have to be out of style. You can try homemade beauty products or making things on your own. You can shop clearance racks to find great accessories for your home. You can also reuse many things from your home in different ways. An old shelf out of the garage might just need a new coat of paint and can be used for toys or closet storage.

6. Build savings into your budget: Saving money is probably one of the hardest challenges, especially if after you pay the bills and buy groceries not much is left over. Start small – saving $10.37 a month is better than not saving anything at all. As you continue to find new ways to start saving money as a stay at home mom you’ll be able to save more and more that can be used to pay off existing debts or have in case of an emergency.

Have any other tips for saving money as a stay at home mom? Share your ideas in the comments below!

Setting Boundaries With Your Adult Children

When your children have grown, it’s hard to know how to go about setting boundaries with your adult children. Some children may decide to test your boundaries by being too needy and lacking independence. They might do things like ask you for money or have no interest in ever moving out, becoming quite comfortable that mom and dad will always take care of them and foot the bill.

Other adult children may do the opposite to test boundaries – moving to another side of the country or world, never calling you, or being pretty much uninvolved.

It is up to you to decide what types of boundaries you should set with your adult children, but it’s very important that they do get established at some point or another.

Here are some tips to help with setting boundaries with your adult children:

1. Define What Your Limits Are: When your kids were younger, you put limits on them such as how much tv they could watch or when they could go out with friends. While the kids may be out of the house now, having a set of “house rules” is still a good idea. Define what limits you have – how much financial help you will offer or how much time you will give them.

2. Don’t Enable Them: Many parents have a hard time with letting go and watching their children struggle on their own. Struggling however is a part of life, and very few adult children will automatically walk right into the perfect situation. Don’t bail them out each and every time they need help – otherwise they will start to depend on you more and more. Take a look at their behaviors that are bothering you – then see if there is anything you can do which would help separate you from the situation. If you constantly enable them, they will only continue to repeat the behavior.

3. Listen: Sometimes all your kids really need is just someone to listen to them. Try not to make automatic judgement or decisions. If they are struggling with a problem, ask them questions – don’t be tempted to tell them what to do.

4. Talk to Them: Some adult children may be oblivious that you don’t want to watch the grand kids constantly or that they are even doing something that is bothering you. You shouldn’t be afraid to tell your kids how you feel and why you think something needs a change. Don’t be critical or angry – just calmly explaining your feelings might help them see your point of view and change their behavior.

5. Give It Time: While it might be nice to expect it to immediately change, chances are it will take some time for your adult children to learn the boundaries you expect for them. Stay firm on the boundaries and limits you have set and don’t be afraid to tell them no or give them no more chances. Eventually they will learn and you’ll be impressed with how well they’ve turned out.

It’s not easy to do any of these things, but hopefully with these tips you’ll be able to make worrying about setting boundaries with your adult children a thing of the past.

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